Everybody has their fears and insecurities. Even some who have great skill and talent. Learn to love yourself and others and everything just falls into place

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www.jackplotnick.com
This sight was recommended by Deborah Zuke I think in one of the SS forums, and it's focused at those in the acting career but can be adapted to your singing career and basically day to day life as well. It helped me A LOT!
Also try www.all-access-club.com
World renowned communication and motivation expert Blair Singer teaches you 'Little Voice Mastery'. I just recently bought his Little Voice Mastery book and from the first page it has honestly changed my life forever.
I hope this helps, goodluck

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